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Monthly Archives: December 2008

Happy New Year to all

By Mike Nistler

Here I sit, in my home office with a glass of wine and a fireplace filling the room with heat. The cat is snuggled in a chair and the dogs are enjoying their heated garage. Birds are dancing around the feeder and music is filling the room from the stereo in the corner.

Snow and cold are just outside my window as I write this blog.

Looking back on 2008, I’m relieved that Minnesota Moments is still publishing in spite of a rough economy. We are fortunate to have just published our 5-year anniversary issue. Look for it in your mailbox or on newstands any day now.

I look forward to an exciting 2009. We’ve already begun work on our March/April issue. It’s difficult to think about spring in the midst of a cold and snowy December, but that’s part of the challenge of publishing a bi-monthly magazine.

But don’t feel sorry for me, I’ve got plenty to be thankful for, including all of you loyal readers.

Happy New Year!

“Sticky and prickly with polka-dot ties”

By Audrey Kletscher Helbling

I’m always looking for new books by Minnesota authors and/or illustrators to review in Minnesota Moments. And yesterday I read a children’s picture book that fit those criteria, and my day, perfectly.

My son picked up a copy of The Sick Bug, written by Susie Bazil of Orono (http://thesickbug.com/) and illustrated by Shawn McCann of Otsego (http://shawnmccann.com/), at our local library. I had requested the book, which was self-published through Beaver’s Pond Press, Inc. of Edina (http://www.beaverspondpress.com/).

Anyway, on Tuesday, I was a bit under the weather, either because of a negative reaction to antibiotics I took before dental work (necessary to prevent infection in my artificial hip) or because I had a bug of some sort.

So there I was, snuggled up in the recliner feeling not so well, reading The Sick Bug.

To my surprise, the book actually made be feel better. I couldn’t help but smile at Bazil’s take on a child’s literal interpretation that a sick bug really is a bug. Little Tess wonders: “What does it look like, this sick bug in me? Is it BIG like a beetle or small like a flea?”

Tess’s Mom humors her daughter with imaginative descriptions of sick bugs — “sticky and prickly with polka-dot ties” — and then explains how to return the bugs to Bugland. McCann’s colorful and creative illustrations playfully enhance the story.

Author Bazil, the mother of three young children, has successfully written a health-oriented book in a fashion that educates and entertains. The Sick Bug has even garnered an honor as a 2009 Mom’s Choice Award Gold Recipient, recognizing it as a “quality family friendly” media product.

So the next time you have a sick child, or you’re sick, check out The Sick Bug. Bazil’s story provides a healthy dose of laughter that’s sure to send the sick bugs scuttling away.

Minnesota folk bloggers

By Audrey Kletscher Helbling

More than a year ago, I reconnected with a high school classmate while working on a feature story for Minnesota Moments about artist Arnold Kramer, dubbed “The Grandpa Moses of Minnesota.”

Beth Johanneck had created a website on Kramer (http://www.arnoldkramer.com) and had organized a select exhibit of her grandfather’s oil paintings at Fieldstone Vineyards near Morgan (http://www.fieldstonevineyards.com/). This sparked a renewed interest in the painter/farmer who died in 1976.

She became my primary source of information about Kramer and his art, which depicts mostly rural scenes in Redwood County.

While the feature turned out well, what pleased me even more was rekindling a friendship with Beth, my locker mate and classmate at Wabasso High School during the early 1970s. We were friends back then, but not close friends.

Although we haven’t seen each other since I interviewed her in the fall of 2007, Beth and I regularly email one another. I have found a kindred sister of the heart in Beth who, like me, grew up on a southwestern Minnesota farm. We are women who appreciate the beauty of the prairie with its wide open spaces, big sky and unceasing wind. We appreciate the families that shaped us with their hard work and their fierce devotion to one another.

We claim a strong connection to our rural roots and to our past. We notice the details in life. Case in point. After posting a December 26 blog, Seeing Christmas through the eyes of little Cindy Lou Who, accompanied by a 1964 holiday photo, I received an email from Beth. She practically dissected the vintage image pixel by pixel. I wasn’t surprised that she noticed the red and white tile kitchen floor, the chrome table and chairs, the girls’ shifts with Peter Pan collars and the boys’ bow-ties.

Beth, like her artist mother and her artist grandfather, possesses creative genes. Those are best showcased in her Minnesota Country Mouse blog (http://countrymouse.blogharbor.com/). Beth writes mostly about places she visits, about her family and about other subjects with a Minnesota connection. She also posts photos and has shared some of those with Minnesota Moments.

Though our styles are unique, a common down-to-earth thread weaves through our writing. Beth calls us “folk bloggers.” I like that title. I like it a lot.

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At 20, she has lost the love of her life

By Audrey Kletscher Helbling

How do you comfort a 20-year-old who has recently lost her boyfriend in an auto accident?

I faced that challenge this morning as I signed a sympathy card, struggling to find words that would bring some solace to Megan. Several weeks ago, while she and Scott were en route to his company Christmas party in Faribault, he lost control of his SUV, which slid, hit a curb and rolled, landing on its roof. Scott, who was not wearing a seatbelt, was partially ejected and died at the scene. Megan, who was wearing a seatbelt, was uninjured.

When I read about the December 7 tragedy, my heart lurched. Could this be the Megan I knew? Her surname is fairly common. I didn’t know Megan’s boyfriend’s name and I didn’t feel comfortable calling the family and asking.

But in my gut, I knew. I knew this was the Megan who, once a spit-fire of a little girl, had grown into a mature young woman and a caring nurse. I knew this was the Megan who had been struck by a car on Halloween night one year and escaped virtually unscathed. I knew.

On Sunday, my fears were confirmed when I saw Megan and her mom, Kay. I embraced them and told them how very sorry I was about Scott. I stroked Megan’s long hair. Tears rimmed my eyes. I hugged them again. My earring snagged on Kay’s hair and for a brief second we laughed.

Laughter. Megan found that in Scott. He was funny, she said of her best friend and the love of her life. Scott was planning to propose to her after 5 ½ years together.

Her sorrow runs deep.

I hope that in some small way, my hugs, my words and, yes, even my laughter, eased Megan’s burden, if but for a moment.

 

The many languages of Christmas

By Audrey Kletscher Helbling

I love language — the cadence of syllables rolling off the tongue, the way words fit snugly together like puzzle pieces, the sweetness of a sentence that flows like molten, golden honey.

Professionally, nothing pleases me more than finding just the right words to tell a story. Sometimes I agonize over word choice. Other times the letters seem to fly from my brain to the keyboard to the computer screen.

No matter how easily words come, or sometimes don’t come, I am smitten with a love of language.

So on Sunday morning, when my church celebrated Christmas in many languages, I listened closely to the rhythm and flow of Scripture read in English, Portuguese, Norwegian, Greek, Dakota and German. Of the foreign languages, I understood only the German, which I studied in high school and college. I could also decipher some of the Norwegian. But the rest, well, I relied on the English translations printed in the service folder.

One language, however, completely stumped me. Helen, a member of my church, sang the first verse of Oh, Come All Ye Faithful in Tamil. I thought perhaps this was some Scandinavian dialect. I couldn’t have been more wrong. It’s a language of India, Sri Lanka and Singapore.

Finally, at the end of the service, the blessing was bestowed in Hebrew. I understood one word: Shalom.

No matter the language, “peace” holds the same promise of hope and harmony in every nation on this earth as it did more than 2,000 years ago in Bethlehem. What a sweet, sweet word to hear and to hold close.

Seeing Christmas through the eyes of little Cindy Lou Who

The Kletscher kids gather around the kitchen table and their Charlie Brown tree in 1964.

The Kletscher kids gather around the kitchen table and their Charlie Brown tree in 1964.

By Audrey Kletscher Helbling

I caught only the end of How the Grinch Stole Christmas on TV the other night. I was disappointed that I missed my favorite holiday classic. I tuned in just as the Grinch realized he couldn’t steal Christmas from the Whos by taking their presents, decorations and food.

As a kid, I faithfully watched The Grinch, Frosty the Snowman and A Charlie Brown Christmas each holiday season. Of all the Whos in Whoville, little Cindy Lou Who captured my heart, which pitter-pattered a bit faster when Frosty began to melt. OK, so I’m mingling two story lines. But if you’re a child of the 1960s, I’m pretty sure you have these animated cartoons embedded in your memory.

As for Charles Schulz’ holiday classic, of course, the forlorn Christmas tree tugged at my heart strings. The tree in my childhood home was sort of a Charlie Brown tree, standing maybe three feet tall and anchoring one end of our Formica kitchen table. Back in the days, that tree seemed big. But now when I see photographs, well, I realize it was pretty tiny.

That’s the thing about Christmas. You can choose to view Christmas from the perspective of wanting the biggest, the best and the most. Or you can choose, like little Cindy Lou Who and the other Whos, to focus on the joy of the season, celebrating with those you love.

I, for one, choose the spirit of Whoville.

More important than gifts

By Audrey Kletscher Helbling

Yesterday, while listening to holiday music on the Christian radio station, KTIS, I was swept by a sudden melancholy. My feelings came as somewhat of a surprise given how well I had been doing up until Tuesday afternoon.

But the songs naturally put my focus on family. I miss my daughter, Miranda, who is 6,000 miles away in Argentina. She’s been gone for five months and won’t be home for the holidays.

I didn’t realize just how blue I was feeling until my other daughter, Amber, called from Minneapolis. She isn’t sure when she will be home on Christmas Eve, but hopes to arrive for the late afternoon church service our family plans to attend.

About that time, I burst into tears. “I miss Miranda,” I said. “I didn’t realize how much until now. I want her here for Christmas.”

Amber, ever the optimist, said, “Well, we can celebrate Christmas with her in July.”

She was referring to her sister’s erroneous thinking some time ago that Argentineans celebrate Christmas in July because that’s their winter season. We all had a good laugh over that one.

When Miranda left in July, we even mailed a Christmas card to her in Buenos Aires.

Anyway, Amber and I continued talking after she had calmed me with laughter. “I don’t have any of my gifts wrapped,” she said. “I was going to wrap them at home.”

“I don’t care about the gifts,” I said. “You’re more important than any gifts.”

“Thank you, Mom,” she said.

That’s right, family is more important than any beautifully-wrapped present beneath the tree. This Christmas, whether your dear ones are close or 6,000 miles away, like my daughter, may you feel the love that binds your hearts. And for those of you who are celebrating that first Christmas without a special loved one, may memories and the love of family comfort you.

A most blessed and Merry Christmas from my family to yours as we celebrate the birth of Jesus!

Audrey, Randy, Amber, Miranda and Caleb

Christmas cookie secrets

By Audrey Kletscher Helbling

I finally got around to holiday baking on Monday. I really don’t do much of that any more. I don’t need sweets in the house. (In other words, if the cookie jar is full, I can’t avoid the temptation.)

But Monday morning I baked a batch of peanut blossom cookies, basically peanut butter cookies with a chocolate star candy or chocolate Hershey’s kiss pushed into the center.

After school, my son and I baked cut-out cookies from dough I had mixed on Saturday. I use a recipe passed down from my Mom. And I’ve never tasted a better roll-out sugar cookie.

The secret lies in the title: Cream Cheese Cookies. Three ounces of cream cheese make these a delectable treat compared to the typical bland sugar cookie.

The recipe also calls for butter. Don’t substitute. I do, however, deviate from the original ingredients, which call for lard. A half cup of Crisco (or other shortening brand) works for me.

My Mom also taught me a few other tips: Chill the dough for several hours or even days. The dough is easier to roll. And roll the dough as thin as possible. (I think Mom did that so she would get more cookies from a batch. With six kids to feed, cookies disappeared all too quickly.) Even though I have half the number of children, I still roll the dough thin.

Because I don’t like to frost cookies (way too much work), I sprinkle colored sugar onto the cut-outs before popping them into the oven. In less than five minutes, the cookies are baked. I personally like these cookies a bit browned around the edges.

After the cookies cooled and my son and I had sampled them, I gingerly laid the cut-outs in an ice cream bucket and put them in the freezer for Christmas, just like my Mom did when I was growing up.

Later that evening, my son dipped his hand into the cookie jar. “Hey, where are the cookies?” he asked.

“In the freezer,” I answered. “They’re for Christmas.”

“It is Christmas,” he said.

Then I let him in on a little secret. “When I was a kid, we would sneak into the freezer and get cookies. Then on Christmas, when Mom would send one of us to the basement to bring up the roll-out cookies, she would wonder why most of the cookies were gone.”

With that, my 14-year-old bee lined toward the basement. No sense in waiting until I wasn’t watching.

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Cream Cheese Cookies

½ cup butter                                         1 egg yolk

½ cup shortening                                  ½ tsp. vanilla

3 ounces cream cheese                         ½ tsp. salt

1 cup sugar                                           2 ½ cups flour

 

Cream butter, shortening, cream cheese and sugar. Mix in egg yolk and vanilla. Then mix in dry ingredients. Form into a ball, wrap in plastic wrap and chill for several hours to several days. Divide the dough in half and roll out on a floured board. Use cookie cutters to cut out shapes. Bake in a 350-degree oven for five minutes or less. Baking time varies depending on thickness of the rolled out dough.

Frosting on a birthday cake

By Audrey Kletscher Helbling

If you’re sick of winter already, raise your hand? Do you see mine going up? You should.

Even though winter officially began on Sunday, here in Minnesota, winter slammed the door on autumn weeks ago. Every-other-day snowfalls and now sub zero temperatures have assured all of us that winter is here to stay for another three months or more. So, we may as well enjoy it.

With that perspective, my family hit the road Sunday afternoon for Waseca. We were supposed to be in Woodbury, but this weekend’s nasty weather postponed our family Christmas gathering there. Seems those relatives living in southwestern Minnesota didn’t want to venture out in blizzard-like conditions.

Oh, yeah, I was trying to stay positive about winter.

OK, so we’re driving over to Waseca from Faribault on back county roads on the way to my niece’s seventh birthday party. The wind is whipping snow across the highway. Drifts of hard-packed snow are forming along the edge of the lane. So sometimes we swing into the other lane (not to worry, there’s little traffic) to avoid the drifts. Other times we thump our way through them. The car sways a bit.

I start reminiscing about the old days of my Dad driving his family on snowy roads in southwestern Minnesota. Only then the drifts were deeper and more frequent.

To the side of the county road, I see a sea of sculpted waves. It’s as if an artist has taken up residence on the land and carved swooping curves into the snow. I find an odd sort of beauty in the swirls and curves and peaks of snow that stretch, drifted, across wide open fields, in road ditches and in farm yards.

The white peaks remind me of egg whites and sugar whipped into meringue or of fluffy seven-minute frosting swirled atop a birthday cake.

Such were my thoughts on a blustery winter Sunday when sun dogs brightened the sky. Somehow those thoughts made winter just a bit more palatable.

  

An angelic moment on a wintry evening

By Audrey Kletscher Helbling

We were hunkered down at home all day Saturday with really no reason to venture onto treacherous roadways until evening. That suited me fine. I mixed up a batch of dough for roll-out cookies, wrapped Christmas gifts and called my Mom.

She lives in southwestern Minnesota which bore the brunt of this weekend’s winter storm. With strong winds whipping snow into white-out blizzard conditions, plows were pulled from roads, no travel was advised and activities were cancelled.

There’s really no place like home on a day like Saturday or Sunday.

But Saturday evening, we warmed up the car and headed the mile to church for the Sunday School Christmas worship service. We live in town, so we only had to make our way along unplowed city streets. Not a big deal, really, but I wondered if many worshippers would show up for services.

What is typically a packed sanctuary was anything but full. We had a prime pew to view the little ones delivering their message, “He Makes All Thing Beautiful.”

As meaningful as the message was about God fixing the brokenness in our lives by sending us a Savior, I also thoroughly enjoyed the way in which that message of hope and salvation was delivered.

A children’s program always provides for numerous entertaining moments. Little Justin, who is either 3 or 4 (I can never remember which) started things off by poking and pushing at the boy standing next to him in the front row. Justin is one of those boys with an irresistible smile that just melts your heart. I wondered how long it would take the other boy to start pushing back. He inched away, but that didn’t stop Justin, who moved in closer. Eventually the teacher, I supposed fearing like me that this could become a real shoving match, stepped in and had a little chat with Justin.

Next, one of the narrators recited his lines and told us, “Please be seated.” Problem was, we already were seated. Just following the script, I suppose.

Then the preschoolers sang Away in the Manager. There was Justin again, not in the front row, but standing a step behind his classmates. I was just waiting to see what he would do next. To his credit, he behaved, even if he didn’t participate much in the singing or accompanying actions.

After the song, the littlest kids ran to be with their families. “Grandpa!” one little boy shouted.

Then there was the angel, oh, the angel, announcing the good news of Jesus’ birth. She was, however, a bit distracted. Her wings wouldn’t stay in place and she kept reaching behind her back to straighten them. That only made the situation worse. By that time, my husband was laughing so hard that his shoulders were heaving up and down. I tried to remain reverent and respectful. But pretty soon my shoulders were moving up and down too.

When a whole host of angels joined her, the leading angel finally quit trying to fix her broken wings. It was then that I realized how this unscripted action of the angelic little girl fit so well with the program theme of God fixing our brokenness.

Sometimes the unplanned moments are the best.